Bottoms gay
Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to see after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a endeavor but not sure how to begin?
We can support you become a enhanced bottom! Here are some quick bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to end damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to support protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you undergo safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good girlfriend and you can’t life pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. R
Straight people tend to acquire a little hung up on titles and roles in queer relationships. When it comes to homosexual sex, many people care for to think rigidly and a little too heteronormatively for their own good: one person is the top (aka the giver or the more dominant partner during sex), and one is the bottom (the receiver or the submissive partner).
It’s sort of a more prying version of the other severely reductive and incredibly problematic question queer people notice all the time: “Who’s the man in the relationship? Who’s the woman?”
Of course, as with anything related to sex, the binary relationship between tops and bottoms is a lot more complicated than that. Sure, there are plenty of queer folks who almost exclusively bottom or top during sex, but there’s just as many who consider themselves versatile or switch (And hey, sometimes, just love with straight sex, there’s no penetration at all. Sex is fluid!)
To dig a little deeper, we asked queer men about topping and bottoming, the stereotypes associated with both and how they choose to use (or not!) the terms in their own lives.
Let’s start with some speedy and dirty definitions for tops and bottoms. (And switche
Troye Sivan said he's a 'verse' during sex, not a 'top' or 'bottom.' Here's what the terms mean.
Troye Sivan, a singer known for his road "Bloom," recently set unbent rumors that he only enjoys receiving penetration during sex.
"I think in the sort of consciousness of gay people I'm some crazy power bottom or something, which is just not the case, and I just wanted to put that out there," Sivan, a gay guy, said on Emily Ratajkowski's podcast "High Low."
Sivan said that he's a "verse," meaning he enjoys both penetrating a partner and being penetrated during sex.
"Verse," as well as the terms "top" and "bottom" are popular ways to describe sexual preferences in the queer community.
While the terms were originally used to describe the sexual preferences of queer men in the 1970s, more LGBTQ+ people have adopted the terms to converse about what they love in sex.
Lately, top/bottom/verse discourse has grown more seeable on TikTok, where lgbtq+ people have been making videos describing the singular struggles of each preference.
It's key to note that each of these categories means something a little unlike to each person, s 
REVIEW: ‘Bottoms’ is the justice for gay losers you’ve been looking for
“Bottoms” is the gayest production you’ve already seen. Part “Heathers,” part “Fight Club” and part “American Pie,” “Bottoms” is a conclusion of teen and cult classics that is elevated and updated for the next generation.
PJ and Josie, played by Rachel Sennott and Ayo Edebiri respectively, are entering yet another year of high institution, doomed to spend it with homophobic slurs written across their lockers and lower than the bottom of the food chain.
That is until an interaction with Jeff, the school’s No. 1 jock, played by Nicholas Galitzine, gets spun through the web of gossip. Suddenly, PJ and Jose find themselves as juvie convicts who have killed before and would again.
On the backs of their newfound reputation, the girls found a fight club under the guise of female empowerment — with the authentic goal of getting in girls’ pants.
Although the words “fight club” should possess been more of a warning than I took them for, “Bottoms” is more unabashedly violent than I was expecting. The action scenes are well-choreographed and potentially better than most action movies that have come out in the past three yea
.
Straight people tend to acquire a little hung up on titles and roles in queer relationships. When it comes to homosexual sex, many people care for to think rigidly and a little too heteronormatively for their own good: one person is the top (aka the giver or the more dominant partner during sex), and one is the bottom (the receiver or the submissive partner).
It’s sort of a more prying version of the other severely reductive and incredibly problematic question queer people notice all the time: “Who’s the man in the relationship? Who’s the woman?”
Of course, as with anything related to sex, the binary relationship between tops and bottoms is a lot more complicated than that. Sure, there are plenty of queer folks who almost exclusively bottom or top during sex, but there’s just as many who consider themselves versatile or switch (And hey, sometimes, just love with straight sex, there’s no penetration at all. Sex is fluid!)
To dig a little deeper, we asked queer men about topping and bottoming, the stereotypes associated with both and how they choose to use (or not!) the terms in their own lives.
Let’s start with some speedy and dirty definitions for tops and bottoms. (And switche
Troye Sivan said he's a 'verse' during sex, not a 'top' or 'bottom.' Here's what the terms mean.
Troye Sivan, a singer known for his road "Bloom," recently set unbent rumors that he only enjoys receiving penetration during sex.
"I think in the sort of consciousness of gay people I'm some crazy power bottom or something, which is just not the case, and I just wanted to put that out there," Sivan, a gay guy, said on Emily Ratajkowski's podcast "High Low."
Sivan said that he's a "verse," meaning he enjoys both penetrating a partner and being penetrated during sex.
"Verse," as well as the terms "top" and "bottom" are popular ways to describe sexual preferences in the queer community.
While the terms were originally used to describe the sexual preferences of queer men in the 1970s, more LGBTQ+ people have adopted the terms to converse about what they love in sex.
Lately, top/bottom/verse discourse has grown more seeable on TikTok, where lgbtq+ people have been making videos describing the singular struggles of each preference.
It's key to note that each of these categories means something a little unlike to each person, s
REVIEW: ‘Bottoms’ is the justice for gay losers you’ve been looking for
“Bottoms” is the gayest production you’ve already seen. Part “Heathers,” part “Fight Club” and part “American Pie,” “Bottoms” is a conclusion of teen and cult classics that is elevated and updated for the next generation.
PJ and Josie, played by Rachel Sennott and Ayo Edebiri respectively, are entering yet another year of high institution, doomed to spend it with homophobic slurs written across their lockers and lower than the bottom of the food chain.
That is until an interaction with Jeff, the school’s No. 1 jock, played by Nicholas Galitzine, gets spun through the web of gossip. Suddenly, PJ and Jose find themselves as juvie convicts who have killed before and would again.
On the backs of their newfound reputation, the girls found a fight club under the guise of female empowerment — with the authentic goal of getting in girls’ pants.
Although the words “fight club” should possess been more of a warning than I took them for, “Bottoms” is more unabashedly violent than I was expecting. The action scenes are well-choreographed and potentially better than most action movies that have come out in the past three yea
.
Troye Sivan said he's a 'verse' during sex, not a 'top' or 'bottom.' Here's what the terms mean.
Troye Sivan, a singer known for his road "Bloom," recently set unbent rumors that he only enjoys receiving penetration during sex.
"I think in the sort of consciousness of gay people I'm some crazy power bottom or something, which is just not the case, and I just wanted to put that out there," Sivan, a gay guy, said on Emily Ratajkowski's podcast "High Low."
Sivan said that he's a "verse," meaning he enjoys both penetrating a partner and being penetrated during sex.
"Verse," as well as the terms "top" and "bottom" are popular ways to describe sexual preferences in the queer community.
While the terms were originally used to describe the sexual preferences of queer men in the 1970s, more LGBTQ+ people have adopted the terms to converse about what they love in sex.
Lately, top/bottom/verse discourse has grown more seeable on TikTok, where lgbtq+ people have been making videos describing the singular struggles of each preference.
It's key to note that each of these categories means something a little unlike to each person, s
REVIEW: ‘Bottoms’ is the justice for gay losers you’ve been looking for
“Bottoms” is the gayest production you’ve already seen. Part “Heathers,” part “Fight Club” and part “American Pie,” “Bottoms” is a conclusion of teen and cult classics that is elevated and updated for the next generation.
PJ and Josie, played by Rachel Sennott and Ayo Edebiri respectively, are entering yet another year of high institution, doomed to spend it with homophobic slurs written across their lockers and lower than the bottom of the food chain.
That is until an interaction with Jeff, the school’s No. 1 jock, played by Nicholas Galitzine, gets spun through the web of gossip. Suddenly, PJ and Jose find themselves as juvie convicts who have killed before and would again.
On the backs of their newfound reputation, the girls found a fight club under the guise of female empowerment — with the authentic goal of getting in girls’ pants.
Although the words “fight club” should possess been more of a warning than I took them for, “Bottoms” is more unabashedly violent than I was expecting. The action scenes are well-choreographed and potentially better than most action movies that have come out in the past three yea
.