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Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a defended and respectful way
To begin, I&#;d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to know that you can attempt new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who crave to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the other side of trans. We talk about trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and directions about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you&#;re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are sympathetic and caring partners
As a gay man, I secretly had sex with a bunch of 'straight' guys. I knew I had to stop when I fell in adoration with one.
I came out to most people in my life at
I grew up in the world of gymnastics, so the sport helped me come out and confess to myself that I was gay at an early age. It helped that no one on my team judged me because we were all so focused on what the judges thought. My teammates and I often congratulated each other when we accomplished the unthinkable — and didn't nurture who we were kissing after the meet.
But when I began hooking up with the boys on my brother's soccer teams, I realized I had a lot to absorb about sex and organism a gay person.
Around the time I came out to my friends, I also started to comprehend that I had a sexual superpower
It came as no surprise to me when I started to explore my sexual world that I had a weird superpower, as one of my friends called it. I realized I was able to nap around with a lot of men who self-identified as straight.
My friend speculated that I had this superpower because I contain a unique blend of masculine and feminine power that allowed me to be "bros with the boys," yet flirty enough to make them travel,
Accept it or not, a lot of us — straight folks — hold been exposed to gay encounters. Not strictly in the bedroom, but sometimes in the form of casual flirting at a bar or a harsh move in public.
We are not trying to either demean or endorse the community; all we’re trying to do here is to find out how straight people have felt after their first such experiences, solicited or unsolicited.
One straight gentlemen, on the condition of anonymity, had accepted a blanket during a bus travel from a male passenger next to him upon existence insisted to. “The next thing you know, there’s a hand sliding up your thigh. I was shocked and removed the blanket and threw it on him. I also shouted at him for that sort of behaviour to make sure he doesn’t do it again. I couldn’t sleep for the rest of the journey,” he said.
A unbent female Quora had first girl-on-girl experience some years back and even she didn’t quite like it.
“I had an orgasm and everything, but I’d never do that again, not in a million years. I was high on beer and crystal meth at the time (that was before I got drug counseling) and I thought I could be bisexual or something, but
Do you remember your first time? Your first encounter with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make complete meaning. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first gay experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our own acceptance and the urge to tell the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly forget it!
In this post, we asked a few of our friends from around the society to share their first gay experience with us, whether it was a first-time gay k&#;ss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've set it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
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